Earlier this year I had an experience that I would like to share with the "open-minded" readers of Adult FriendFinder.

It's the story of the first time I had a 1 on 1 sexual encounter with a member of the same sex. It happened in the capital city of an eastern state in the summer of 03. I was in town on a "business trip", when one evening I found myself alone, bored, and extremely horney. I had considered going to some clubs that I saw advertised in the weekend guide, when a particular ad grabbed my attention. It was an ad for karaoke night at a gay bar in the downtown area. At the time I was becoming more in touch with my bi-sexuality, but on this night, the homosexual side was as hungry as ever. My mind was made up. Understand though, that I had never done anything remotely this "crazy" on my own..and the excitement of doing something that is considered so taboo got me even hotter. So I decided to go to this club and give my gay side a whirl. I was dressed in my sexiest pair of blue jeans, that were just a bit to tight in the soft place and crotch a tight, baby blue, muscle-reveling t-shirt and a sharp pair of black leather shoes with buckles on them.

Now, I had no idea about what gay men go for, but I figured if it was even remotely close to what women had told me they liked, then my chances weren't all that bad of attracting a man. When I arrived I sat in the parking lot for a few minutes to make sure I was going to go through with it, and also to make sure no members of my family might by chance be walking through the parking lot, 500 miles from their home, on this particular night at 10PM.

I was being foolish, and decided to "be a man" and go in. When I walked in I was so surprised that the inside of this bar didn't look any different than any bar I had ever been to in my life, with the exception of many rainbow flags plastered on the walls. But all the people looked like everyday people. I saw men and women, some laughing, some sitting alone, and it was then that I realized how sad the world is with its persecution of gay people. I felt very at home strangely enough, and decided to go to the bar to get myself a drink. As I stood there, I scoped the place out and wondered who might be checking me out.

I didn't see any obvious takers, although there was this on guy by himself at a table that I thought was the best looking guy in the place, so I decided to put my merchandise on display to see if he might bite. I went and played a few rounds of pool by myself so that I could be out there for everyone to see, and as youre about to discover, it apparently worked. I went up to the bar one last time to get another drink, when the attractive young man that I had noticed before was with a couple of new faces by the bar. Since having a few drinks loosened me up, I decided to go up and introduce myself to see where things might go.

---------------- This is the pivotal part of the story where I cross the thresh hold from just being curious, to actually going for it. I thought it was a nice place to break before I started part two where all the action takes place.